I've tried diapers, belly bands, schedules, and every washable pad I could find. Here is what I learned.
Over the past two years, I've dealt with diapers that wouldn't stay on, belly bands he refused to wear, disposable pads too small for his accidents, and schedules that only worked if I was home every two hours. Six solutions. None of them let either of us rest.
The hardest part wasn't the cleanup. It was watching him look confused, standing next to his own mess, not understanding what had happened. He didn't need training. He needed something that felt natural to him.